Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply. Cultivating genuine active listening will instantly set you apart on any date.
Reflective Responses
When your date finishes explaining a challenging project or personal passion, mirror their emotion before shifting to your own story: "It sounds like that project took tremendous perseverance—how did you feel once it wrapped up?"
People may forget what you ordered or what jacket you wore, but they will never forget how comfortable and validated you made them feel in your presence.
